Hurtful things people say. Unknowlingly?

I just thought it would be fun to share a list of painful things people say that really hurt us; and they are usually clueless. Some of these things were said up to 30 years ago, but they still burn just as much today as they did then.

Please add to the list via your comments, or email me with your additions. Maybe we'll wake up a "clueless" outthere, and save someone else the pain.


Some women look good without makeup,
You're not one of them.

You really shouldn't smile when
your getting your photo taken.
Your lips disappear.

It's not like it was a real baby.
Espeically effective right after you have miscarried a very wanted child.


I'm not attracted to fat women.