And you thought he was going to be faithful?

But he won't cheat on me -- the battlecry of the desperate.

If I've heard the above once, I've heard it twenty times. From relatives, friends, co-workers, all of whom became involved with a married man, dated him through the end of his marriage, and moved in with him in his new single pad -- or he moved in with them.

Yes, it happens. A lot.

And each time the person is sitting across the table from me with a cup of coffee and an ernest expression on their face I have to fight not to say, "Are you freaking kidding me?"

Oh, I don't have any experience personally in this area; thank God -- something bad I've never done! LOL

But it is simple common sense; if someone will cheat on their spouse with you, they are going to cheat with someone else when they are living with you.

Then, the other morning, confirmation! On the radio station we were watching (and how odd is that, the fact you can watch a radio channel on your TV now?) they did a section call Fact or BullFact. They had statistics proving that 80% of marriages that started with affairs ended up in divorce.

I'm not much of a gambler, but those are not odds I'd want to play.